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Male (58) looking for Female Fenton, Missouri, United States

I am a reserved, mature 53 y/o male. I dont want single encounters, multiple partners, or oline cyber sex.
I am honest to a tee, layal beyond most others reasoning, and I dont want to settle for anyone except the woman of my dreams and the love(r) of my life. Anything else is a waste of time for a man of my age. I will never settle for anything else or less than that given in return to you from me.
No one is perfect including myself, but tere are things that clearly define a good relationship , and that is truth, fidelity, trust and respect, these are the things that I know love is made of , and without all of these "virtues" being the foundation of any relationship, the love will surely deminish , and eventually die. And thats not what i am looking forward to. So only serious women please try to contact me, that is if you like what you have read.

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EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageIrish
Height5' 9" (175 cm)
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthNeck length
Facial HairMoustache
Best featureEyes
Health ConditionDisabled
My AttractivenessAverage

Education & Employment

EducationProfessional - Technical - Vocational School
SpecialtyArt / Music / Literature
Employment StatusSelf-employed
Annual income$25,000 - $50,000
Job TitleMusician, Recording artist, producer, singer /writ

Leisure & Fun

Favorite movies typesAction, Science fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Animation
Music typesCountry, I'm a recording artist, Blues, Jazz, Soul, Folk
Reading selectionAncient, Classic, Computers, Fantasy, Fiction, Health, History, Humor, Instructional, Music, Nature, Satire, Science, Science fiction, Technical
HobbiesArts & Crafts, Reading, Learning, Music, Movies, Internet, Games, Family, Travel, Camping, Computers


SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorFriendly
Friends describe asSomeone they want to be
In High School I was a(n)Average Joe
Sense of humorClever
My great timeHanging out with friends, Partying, Relaxing, Playing video games, Going to a concert, Going to a museum


Political viewsVery conservative

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness
Look for in a partnerI virtuous woman these days is extremely hard to find, but thats who I am interested in meeting, you dont have to be perfect with looks but I must like to look at you even with your hair messed up in the morning, You must be able to be posessive and still trusting enough in me that that possessiveness turns into extreme jealousy.
A woman who cooks and cleans is a plus , but not a fundamental requirement for our relationship to thrive.
She must take care of herself physically, in other words you cannot be afraid to go see a doctor, for fear he or she will try to take advantage of you. Because i do the same thing for myself for you.
I need her to be faithful to a tee, honest loyal, without using deceptive tactics to get what she wants. You absolutely cannot believe that its ok to lie to your partner ABout anything, no matter what "anything" may be.
You must trust and respect me emphatically. She has to be faithful as much as she trusts me to be faithful she must be.
On the first dateOur first date is one where we can go out to some place publicly. Dinner , supper or lunch, or maybe even breakfast is on me. You dont have to dress up, but be neat :) We can enjoy some talking where you can ask me anything you want, and i get to do the same. Kissing on a first date acceptable if sparks fly with us, but not mandatory. I will open every door for you as I am a gentleman, and that will not stop there. If you dont want to be treated like a woman , or a lady than it wouldnt be advisable for us to meet to begin with.
I am a very old fashioned man , I believe in old fashioned values. And hopefully you too will feel this way.
If I pay for dinner do not feel akward or like you have to do anything as repayment for that , again old fashioned values. If I like you I will flirt with you in some ways, and if I really like you , you will not leave without my number and address, e-mail address and the sort :) We will have a very lovely time getting to know each other , and to me thats the most important thing that we need to do.
There is and will not be any pressure for anything else except us getting to know each other through talking and enjoying our time together.